Here is an Other Minds bibliography (to be updated--let me know of any additions).
On writing, see Jim Pryor's Guidelines on Writing a Philosophy Paper, and Strunk's Elements of Style.
Useful glossaries are Jim Pryor's Philosophical Terms and Methods and the Dictionary of Philosophy of Mind.
David Chalmers' Web Resources Relating to Consciousness, and Such is well worth browsing, as is his website.
The Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy (SEP) is excellent, but far from complete.
See the MIT philosophy page for colloquia dates, other philosophy subject information, etc.